But, at the same time, a deeper part of you tries to push your relationship to the brink and then back again so you can artificially create an experience of insecurity. Settlers You’re willing to commit yourself to the person who expresses interest in you.
You become much less discriminating about who you choose.
As a means of protecting yourself, you assume dishonesty even from an honest partner, which in turn sours the relationship as it goes on.
Then, as you disbelieve your partner so often, maybe even relentlessly that he may begin to consider lying a viable option – he is already “doing the time”, why not commit the crime?
Maybe there was a figure somewhere in her life that provided guidance and support and helped her to offset her low self-esteem with resilience.
Resilience enables women to be more measured in their approach to men, rather than hysterical about it. Boy-Crazy With low self-esteem, it can seem as if nothing comes easily or naturally to you.
– you gravitate toward relationships in which you’re able to feel this familiar insecurity. If the relationship becomes too secure, you may become disinterested and bored and you may stray.