What opportunities might be presented to a woman that fits the national height and weight charts that an overweight/thick/phat woman would be denied?Do men see a fat woman that has lost a great deal of weight as attractive now or just a skinny fat girl?The media is filled with stories about the high rates of obesity in the United States, focusing on the States with the highest rates of obesity and “obesity related illnesses.” What if I were to tell you that associating a dozen or more illnesses with obesity is nothing but a scam to enrich the coffers of the diet and weight loss industry?
But what if a woman should lose the weight that has been plaguing her for decades?
What (if anything) changes about her self-perception, her personality, her dating options?
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I have been online dating for about two months and it’s been so-so thus far. I’m 5’3″ and an hourglass-ish size 10, so while I’m not obese, I’m definitely not “athletic and toned.” I chose pictures that I think accurately show this.
Finally, the last myth we’re gonna bust is that there’s something about your profile that’s attracting the wrong kind of men.