The irony is that the only rational fear we Externally-Influenced Ed lets other people play way too big a part in the life partner decision.
The choosing of a life partner is deeply personal, enormously complicated, different for everyone, and almost impossible to understand from the outside, no matter how well you know someone.
This is just a shitty fact and makes an already hard process one notch more stressful.
Still, if it were me, I’d rather adopt children with the right life partner than have biological children with the wrong one.
This is logical, because that’s the way you proceed when you want to do something well and minimize mistakes.